THERE’S nothing worse than discovering your accomplice’s been taking part in away, sneaking round behind your again.
And after experiencing that heartache himself, Dan determined to take issues into his personal hand.
Dan started providing his relationship check again in August 2021 and receives greater than 30 requests for assist a dayCredit score: @danfoord
He revealed there’s one key signal that might counsel your accomplice is taking part in awayCredit score: tiktok/@danfoord
Now referred to as TikTok’s official ‘cheat hunter’, the 24-year-old content material creator slides into the DMs of these in want of a check.
However there’s one clear signal that the entire males he’s helped have noticed earlier than discovering their accomplice’s been taking part in away.
“The principle factor I get folks saying is their girlfriend’s not been exhibiting as a lot curiosity over the previous few weeks.
“They’re somewhat bit extra secretive with their cellphone.
“It’s the altering of their persona, the place they had been initially so eager however now they’re exhibiting much less curiosity.”
Now, talking solely to Fabulous, Dan explains how his function as a ‘cheat hunter’ actually works – and the strangest exchanges he’s had on the job.
THE FIRST DATE
Dan, who began providing his companies again in August 2021, has had each women and men attain out to ask for his assist.
Some are singles of their 20s, whereas others are married and nearer to 40.
His hottest check, episode 4, has now had greater than 5.5 million views, inflicting lots of to achieve out for his assist.
The complete-time carpenter from Essex stated: “It began off within the US. I noticed some creators developing on my For You web page, after which some ladies introduced it over to the UK.
“However I observed there have been no guys defending the blokes, catching ladies out.
“So I put a message out on Instagram to see if anybody wished their accomplice examined. A few folks received again to me and I simply went from there.
“Now, once I put up a video, I’d say I get a minimum of 30 [requests] a day, and that goes on for a superb 5 days.”
However how does he select which individuals to assist?
“I simply scroll and choose one at random. Clearly, I can’t get by way of to all of them.
It’s so laborious telling the man once they have agreed to fulfill up – however others are over the moon as a result of they simply need an excuse to go away their companions.
“I’m on episode 17 now so think about the variety of messages I do get. However I strive my finest.”
The ‘check’ itself entails Dan messaging the accomplice of his shopper on Instagram and hanging up a flirty dialog.
He defined: “So I’ll see somebody and see their message. Then I’ll ask him to ship me his accomplice’s profile.
“I’ll say to the man, ‘depart it with me’ and I’ll simply slide in DMs in some artistic means.
“I attempt to be humorous – make somebody chuckle and then you definately’ve received your foot within the door.
“[We chat] till they comply with meet me. That’s all the time my cut-off as that’s not proper.
“That’s once I decelerate the dialog, get the screenshots and ship it to the man.
“Some folks would say, ‘oh as quickly as she says she hasn’t received a boyfriend, lower it off’.
“However there’s all the time room for the woman to work her means out of it.”
IT’S NOT CHEATING THOUGH
“The best way I see it, the woman hasn’t really cheated as a result of it was only a check.
“It’s to see if she would as a result of, in my eyes, I might be like, ‘okay, that’s what she would do in actual life on an evening out or if another man had messaged her’.
Individuals must be somewhat extra switched on.
“It’s undoubtedly a superb factor for the man since you wouldn’t need her really assembly up with somebody.”
Though Dan did as soon as, due to his check, uncover that one man’s accomplice was really taking part in away.
He stated: “The worst check I’ve carried out was a man messaged me to check a woman he was seeing.
“She really went on to fail the check and agreed to fulfill me.
“Then I had a message from one other man saying that he didn’t ask me to check his girlfriend.
“Seems she has been seeing each of those guys on the identical time – after which additionally wished to fulfill up with me.
“That one was probably the most rewarding understanding I’d stopped her from dishonest on two guys, as for all I do know, she might maintain doing over and over.”
Though his strangest discovery – some males have used his checks as an excuse to finish their relationship.
He stated: ”It’s so laborious telling the man once they have agreed to fulfill up – however others are over the moon as a result of they simply need an excuse to go away their companions.
“I had one man message me, saying, ‘I’m not likely eager on this woman however I really feel too dangerous to go away her. I want an excuse to go’. So he despatched me her web page.
“I tapped to message her and turned out she’d already slid into my DMs and reacted with love-heart faces to considered one of my tales, an image of me.
“So I didn’t even ship a message. I simply screenshot that and he stated, ‘sure, cheers mate, that may do’.
Some may surprise if catching folks out would make Dan really feel cautious when making an attempt up to now himself – however the content material creator reveals it’s had the other impact.
“It’s a profit as once I communicate to folks, I look out for extra pink flags. I can see them extra.
“And I nonetheless have hope that there are folks which can be loyal on the market.
“It hasn’t made me warier – I’m just a bit bit extra screwed on.
“I’ve personally been there. You’re blinded since you like somebody a lot that you just ignore issues.
“However folks must be somewhat extra switched on.”